Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions
- 1When the holiday season comes to an end so do the parties and family gatherings. The absence of a full social calendar can cause one to feel lonely. Prior to Christmas or shortly thereafter, make plans to spend an evening out with friends once a week throughout the year. Look for winter activities that you can attend that will provide you with an opportunity to mingle and meet new friends.
- 2During the Christmas season family members often travel to a certain location in order to celebrate the season with family that they seldom have the opportunity to visit with. Once everyone returns to their home, a sense of sadness may occur among siblings, parents, and children who would like to maintain a closer connection with each other. While everyone is together for Christmas, devise a plan for remaining more connected through phone calls, e-mails, photos, or snail mail. If at all possible, arrange a summer reunion.
- 3All of those holiday decorations will have to be taken down. Somehow that isn't as enjoyable as the process of decorating. Usually, some rearranging must be done in order to make room for the Christmas tree and other holiday decorations. When taking them down, praise yourself for storing them in an organized manner. Before putting your house back in the order it was prior to Christmas, consider rearranging your furniture and changing your decor items to start the new year with a different look.
- 4Even though you might not want to admit it, you may feel disappointed if you do not receive a gift you really wanted. Lots of things go on sale after Christmas. If possible, buy yourself the gift you wanted. If the item is no longer available or if it is too expensive for you to purchase, buy yourself a different gift. It's better to do something nice for yourself than to harbor anger or sadness over a gift you didn't get.
- 5Winter doesn't mean you have to confine yourself totally to the indoors. Try taking a walk each day. Exercise indoors if the weather is too bad to be outside. Open your blinds or curtains to allow as much light inside as possible. Put some colorful plants in your home. Keep a positive frame of mind and look for the beauty in winter.